# Extraverted Parents Face Higher Risk of Estrangement from Adult Children New research suggests personality traits influence why strained family relationships end in total cutoff. - **Source:** [PsyPost](https://www.psypost.org) - **Published:** 2026-11-06 - **Topic:** [health](https://brifing.si/c/health) - **Original article:** - **On Brifing:** https://brifing.si/s/9ec6639b-cf01-42ff-8afa-13e0712fdba6 ## Study on Family Estrangement A study published in Frontiers in Psychology investigated why some strained parent-child relationships result in estrangement while others endure. Researchers analyzed 520 U.S. residents, including 368 parents and 152 adult children, to determine if Big Five personality traits predict the likelihood of cutting off contact within already tense family dynamics. ## Extraversion and Parental Risk The research found that parents scoring higher in extraversion face a 79% higher probability of being estranged by their adult children. Specifically, the sub-trait of enthusiasm emerged as a significant predictor, suggesting that highly expressive parents may inadvertently overwhelm adult children who are seeking more emotional boundaries during periods of tension. ## Openness as a Protective Factor For adult children, higher scores in openness to experience were linked to a 78% reduction in the odds of initiating an estrangement. This trait, which includes intellectual curiosity and receptivity to new perspectives, likely provides the cognitive flexibility needed to navigate ideological disagreements or perceived slights without severing the family bond. ## Defining the Estrangement Threshold In this study, estrangement was defined as having contact, including in-person visits or digital communication, once a year or less. The sample revealed that 48% of parents were estranged, none of whom initiated the cutoff, while 35% of adult children reported initiating the separation from their parents due to ongoing relational strain. ## The Role of Education Demographic analysis indicated that adult children with master’s or doctoral degrees had 72% lower odds of estrangement compared to those with only a high school education. Researchers hypothesize that advanced education may foster superior problem-solving skills or provide financial stability, both of which help buffer families against the pressures of chronic conflict. ## Limitations of the Sample The study relied on a sample recruited from an online support community, which was 95% White and 93% female. Because participants were self-selected, the findings may not represent the broader population. The researchers noted that the gender imbalance, particularly the low number of fathers, limits conclusions regarding gender-based differences in family estrangement. ## Methodological Constraints As a cross-sectional study, the data was collected at a single point in time, preventing researchers from establishing a causal link between personality and estrangement. It remains unclear if specific traits cause the cutoff or if the experience of being estranged alters how individuals perceive and report their own personality characteristics. ## Democratized Kinship Framework The authors reference the concept of democratized kinship, where younger generations view family ties as conditional on mutual respect and emotional safety rather than permanent obligation. This cultural shift suggests that when parents and children have mismatched expectations regarding these boundaries, personality traits become the deciding factor in whether the relationship survives. ## Future Research Directions Future studies must track families longitudinally, ideally starting before an estrangement occurs, to better understand these dynamics. Incorporating perspectives from multiple family members and measuring specific conflict habits will be essential to clarify how temperament interacts with family stress to determine whether a relationship remains strained or ends in total separation. ## Sources covering this story - https://www.psypost.org/in-strained-families-extraverted-parents-are-more-likely-to-be-cut-off-by-their-adult-children/ — --- _Summary written by Brifing from the original reporting. Copyright in the original article belongs to its publisher; read the full piece at the link above._