# Lessons Learned from Traveling with My 78-Year-Old Parents Traveling with elderly parents can be tougher than traveling with toddlers. - **Source:** [Business Insider](https://www.businessinsider.com) - **Published:** 2026-07-19 - **Topic:** [Career Growth](https://brifing.si/c/growth) - **Original article:** - **On Brifing:** https://brifing.si/s/b9e6429c-96f5-4239-836a-2ebc4f7b8a3b ## Surprise Reunion and Initial Challenges Ash Jurberg surprised his 78-year-old parents in Tokyo. Navigating the city with their poor eyesight and vertigo proved more challenging than expected. Long rest stops and waiting in lines were among the first lessons of the trip. ## Transportation Struggles and Solutions Tokyo's complex train system wasn't suitable for elderly parents. Ash opted for taxis, playing 'Frogger' in heavy traffic to find cabs. The politeness of Japanese drivers made the process slightly easier. ## Patience in Food Lines Delicious food in Tokyo often meant long queues. Ash waited for hours on behalf of his parents. Experiences at popular spots like Ichiran ramen and A Happy Pancake created unforgettable memories for the family. ## The Importance of Rest Breaks Ash assumed 15-minute breaks would suffice, but each break stretched to nearly an hour. His parents' phone habits and need for rest significantly slowed down the travel pace. ## Shibuya Crossing and Other Experiences Posing for photos at Shibuya Crossing, the world's busiest pedestrian crossing, was a highlight for his parents. Ash managed to complete all planned activities but struggled with time management due to extended breaks. ## Reflection and Self-Critique Ash realized this trip should have happened 20 years earlier. His parents' emotional reactions and gratitude made all the challenges worthwhile. This experience highlighted the importance of not delaying family bonding opportunities. ## Sources covering this story - https://www.businessinsider.com/traveled-with-older-parents-70s-another-country-challenging-tips-japan-2026-7 — --- _Summary written by Brifing from the original reporting. Copyright in the original article belongs to its publisher; read the full piece at the link above._